Sometimes it's hard to deal with the concequences of our actions. Sometimes it's hard to communicate with people when they're uspet.
In my life I have learned, primarily through watching the matters of others, that difficulties are often dealt with in an improper manner due to simple complications like fatigue, or frustration.

Is it wrong for me to reap the lessons of those whom I witness?

Do these ways prevent me from undertaking my own actions, and learning lessons that I would more directly apply to me?

Am I, by observing, preventing the education of my peers simply by feeling so very tired from learning their lessons that they seldom get to learn mine with me?

I suppose only time will tell.